From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: jericho@attrition.org
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 15:51:49 -0330
Subject: password

can you help me to get a password from my husbands account I know he's having an 
affair and i need proof. i need this with out him knowing.

donna




From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: jericho@attrition.org
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 16:03:44 -0330
Subject: husbands password

If you are unable to give me the password will you be able to get me information 
from his account and e-mail it to me if you can I will give you his address.

Donna




From: lyger (lyger@attrition.org)
To: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
Cc: security curmudgeon (jericho@attrition.org)
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 20:06:41 -0500 (EST)
Subject: Re: husbands password


On Sat, 10 Mar 2007, double d dee wrote:

": " If you are unable to give me the password will you be able to get me
": " information from his account and e-mail it to me if you can I will give you
": " his address.
": "
": " Donna

Hi Donna,

Got both of your emails.  Sorry to hear that you've been having troubles.
Any more background information about the situation that might allow us to
help you out?

Lyger




From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: lyger@attrition.org
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 22:49:04 -0330
Subject: Re: husbands password

he told me it was over and I want to have proof that it is. I know the girls name 
and where she lives but i don't want him to know that i have information from his 
account can you get this for me with out him knowing if you can I will send you his 
e-mail address. I have to know for sure if he has stopped before i can forgive him. 
I so want to beleive him and get on with our marriage the way it was before.

Donna




From: lyger (lyger@attrition.org)
To: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 21:37:57 -0500 (EST)
Subject: Re: husbands password


On Sat, 10 Mar 2007, double d dee wrote:

": " he told me it was over and I want to have proof that it is. I know the
": " girls name and where she lives but i don't want him to know that i have
": " information from his account can you get this for me with out him knowing
": " if you can I will send you his e-mail address. I have to know for sure if
": " he has stopped before i can forgive him. I so want to beleive him and get
": " on with our marriage the way it was before.
": "
": " Donna

My honest reaction?  You don't need me or anyone else to get his Hotmail
password.  You need to look him straight in the eyes and ask a very
difficult question, gauge his reaction, and decide whether or not you can
believe his answer and trust him in the future.  If you can't do that,
it's probably time for you to move on.

Not saying you're right or wrong for wanting to know, but it probably
won't ever be "the way it was before".  Send me a size, I probably have a
few of those t-shirts still lying around here somewhere...

Lyger




From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: lyger@attrition.org
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 23:09:52 -0330
Subject: Re: husbands password

would you be able to take one look to see if he's still e-mailing her and let me 
know what you can find and send me a copy that would be all i asak.

Donna




From: lyger (lyger@attrition.org)
To: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 21:53:45 -0500 (EST)
Subject: Re: husbands password


On Sat, 10 Mar 2007, double d dee wrote:

": " would you be able to take one look to see if he's still e-mailing her and
": " let me know what you can find and send me a copy that would be all i asak.
": "
": " Donna

Whether I could or couldn't isn't the issue.  Whether or not you can
continue a relationship completely lacking in trust is.  Anything I could
do on your behalf would only exacerbate an already touchy situation.

Really do wish you the best.  With that said, I am newly single... ;)




From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: lyger@attrition.org
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 23:28:14 -0330
Subject: Re: husbands password

so your answer is no i really would like to know i am really trying to pick up 
the pieces of your marriage and move forward if he's lying i would really love 
to know before i confront him with it. could you please try for me.

Donna




From: lyger (lyger@attrition.org)
To: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
Date: Sat, 10 Mar 2007 22:15:56 -0500 (EST)
Subject: Re: husbands password


On Sat, 10 Mar 2007, double d dee wrote:

": " so your answer is no i really would like to know i am really trying to pick
": " up the pieces of your marriage and move forward if he's lying i would
": " really love to know before i confront him with it.
": " could you please try for me.
": "
": " Donna

Donna,

I was trying to give some advice into relationships (not that I'm an
authoritative source to any degree), but you do have to know something.
It's understood that you're trying to save whatever is left of the
relationship.  I do respect that.  However, it puts you into a very
difficult position when you solicit someone to commit a felony (yes,
computer hacking is generally a felony these days) because you can't
directly communicate with him about your concerns.

It seems that you feel he hasn't been honest with you, but by contacting
us, you're not being honest either.  You're going to have to follow your
own head and heart on this one.  Seems to me that if you've already gone
this far, you probably already know the answer.

Lyger




From: double d dee (donna_dee30@hotmail.com)
To: lyger@attrition.org
Date: Sun, 11 Mar 2007 10:35:32 -0330
Subject: Re: husbands password

Thanks for your concern it's very fustrating when you don't know what to do . 
one day you feel like beleive and forgiving the next day you feel different. 
I wish there was a simple answer. I really love my husband and I wish the answer 
would just come to me. I guess I will have to do a lot more thinking and hope that 
what ever i decide it's the right thing to do. thanks

Donna




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